Just finished the first date and thinking about how to ask for a second date? We have seen both men and women in a flux and cogitating about whether is it a good time to ask for a second date or not. They can be good at finding and getting the first date. However, their expectations of getting a second date come crashing down when women or men just start ignoring them.
One can find it easy to get the first date and this happens as any one of them can be curious for the first time. However, to secure a second date, one has to make his or her first date work. If the first date went well, one can contact her/him as soon as one reaches back home. However, in case if one didn’t want to go further, it’s better to reveal it clearly soon after the date.
So, what are the things one can do to secure a second date? There are certain things which one has to translate his/her first date into second:
Prevent first date becoming bad: There are enough articles written and published how to avoid the first bad dates. However, it’s a plain and simple truth. How one is going to make the first impression is the key factor to decide whether one is going to get a second date or not. There are few things one can avoid on the first date like:
o Lack or hygiene or grooming
o Outdated and boring date ideas
o Not listening to each other
o Turning into an investigative mode and asking impersonal and objective questions
o Giving an impression of needy and desperate
Show the interest: One has to show his/ her keenness and genuine interest in another. One cannot find her/ his second date unless she/he shows her/ his real interest. One can be famous, successful and wealthy, however, any indifferent attitude won’t land one a second date. One has to take time and put efforts to make the date work. Any kind of careless, lethargic and passive mindset will not work in one’s favor.
Touch and mention availability: The best way to let others know one’s interest in a second date is give passive hint, indication or mention. The best way is to show one’s genuity by a simple gesture of touch. A physical proximity in itself says everything and sends an impression one being interested.
Additionally, mentioning one’s availability at a certain place and time itself conveys one’s interest in meeting for a second date.
Keep the first date continue: The best way to have a second date is to continue the first date. One can continue to meet the next time to finish the pending date’s dessert by meeting at downtown’s new parlor. This way one can convey her/ his idea of getting a second date. Moreover, the impromptu idea of a walk in the neighborhood will get one time to spend with each other.
Be straightforward: Being upfront is the best way to get a second date. Letting him/her know that one had a great time on the date and want to meet again will make it easy to decide. Additionally, let other know about the idea of a second date will give her/ him to decide, lead and arrange for the next meeting.
Making one’s mind about the next second Blind date is the most important thing. If one feels the initial chemistry among each other, it becomes easy for both to understand the situation and to carry forward for the next date.